The Tortoise and The Hare

                    The Tortoise and The Hare

            " The greatest things ever done on the Earth have been done little by little"

                                               William Jennings Bryan

This time I have just been plodding along.

I started several projects fast but hit a bit of a funk.

The month of may was full to the brim with life-

 altering events in the lives of many people close to Us,

 First, and taking up the most space in my head and

 heart , has been my sister. She had been struggling

 to take in enough air, and thought she was just a 

little sick, and would wait it out. Well, she tried that

 and things didn't get better, so she called her 

daughter and asked her to take her to the doctor to get 

the situation checked out well, it turns out that it was 

her heart, not her lungs as she had expected. One of 

the valves was failing. As always, the doctor did 

many tests. They got second opinions and decided to 

operate and replace the valve. She went in for surgery 

and things went well. She is now at her daughter's 

recovering. Life has taken a sharp turn for her. I 

suspect it will never be quite the same. It caused me 

some reflection. She was living in her own home and 

raising her grandson herself. Because of the 

downturn in the economy, she was not earning 

enough to support herself and her grandson, so she 

was in the process of going back to school in a new 

direction. Then this new curve in the road came,

 

School was put on hold, she has also lost many of her 

freedoms. Her daughter and her husband have taken 

the reins so to speak. She is now going to live in a 

new little house on their property. Her grandson has 

since graduated and moved on to new horizons . At 

the moment, she is in recovery mode. I guess time will 

tell what is ahead.

 

It's caused me to think quite a bit. Life sure can take 

turns that are not anticipated.

 

In the same month I had a friend lose her battle with 

cancer.

She has now gone on to her new horizons. There were 

some real shake ups in her Family. First she died, 

then her granddaughter lost her first baby the same 

day. To add to the mix, the granddaughter's father 

killed himself the day after the funeral.

 

One of My husbands nieces got married. Someone 

else we know has been put in jail.. My husband and I have celebrated our 33^rd anniversary. There where 

many other things, but, I'm sure you get the picture. 

The projects I've been laboring on took a lot longer than

I had anticipated. I started them quickly like the 

Hare, but have been forced to take things at a slower 

pace. 

 

 

The necklace I will first talk about hit a rock. I was 

going along well and added some triangular stones. 

The first one went on just fine. Then I tried to thread 

the second one and found it had two holes drilled in it 

.Neither of them met in the middle. At first I thought 

the hole was just too small, so I started to use a bead 

reamer to make the hole bigger. The only tool I had 

was the wrong shape. It was conical and not straight. 

As I went along, the hole got larger at the opening 

and small in the middle. To get to the point, it did get 

done, but it took two days by hand. I was just about to

give up, but I kept going. 

 

Here is a poem I found this morning that seems to fit.

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest, if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up though the pace seems slow--
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and faltering man,
Often the struggler has given up,
When he might have captured the victor's cup,
And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out--
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit--
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

- Author unknown

I kept going and was able to finish, Although It took 

way longer than I wanted to spend.

 The situation of 

my sister's recovery is going way slower than she 

would like. I was pleased with the outcome of the 

necklace. Hope someone else does too. This necklace 

started with a buckle, a friend of mine gave me. Her 

belt that had worn out. The buckle could still be 

useful, so she wanted to see what I could do with it. I 

looked at it It seemed to say,” take me apart and 

make me two'. I glued a stone in the center and tied 

various cords on the part of the buckle , transforming 

it into a pendant necklace. I learned if I do not have 

much else, I am creative and I do have persistence. I 

also started a bag and had to set it aside for awhile. I 

think it will be finished for the next blog. The 

interesting thing about it is I did not like it. So I let it

sit for awhile and then went back to it yesterday and 

it did not look so bad. Sometimes we just need to 

stand back in life and take a breath. Get a new 

vantage point and then just go on. 

 

 

I also made a little necklace that was sort of fun. It 

was made of a lone earring and some other pieces 

from a grab bag. It also had a bead I could not get 

ontothe string so I endeavored to make the hole bigger 

on it and it broke. So I had to take it apart and 

rethink it a bit. Then when I finished it, It insisted on 

twisting and not laying flat as I wanted it to do. So I 

had to make some modifications and I think I 

finallygot it. It just required a bit of fiddling . I 

learned twists and turns in a cord and knots can 

make 

the 

balance 

go off. 

 

 

Anyway life is going on, and I 

hope you too will keep 

going on to find the best end you 

can. I hope to see 

you next time.

 

Take life as it comes and keep 

going. You never quite 

know what new horizons are 

ahead. It's all part of the 

 

dance. It's Okay to stop and take some time to get 

refreshed and relax, take a drink and realize we are 

not done yet, just on detour. We will get there, just 

maybe not the way we planned. We are not always in 

charge as most of us would like. If we were,

 

would we learn as much? I think not. So step back 

and look around there is a way through.